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hzsogood
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 Dumped for the friend.. messed up

Just found out on monday that my girlfriend of 3 years has been seeing a guy i no for about 15 years.. wow what a feeling this is.. Everything seemed fine but i guess not. I already had a surprise to take her to cancun on her birthday and ask her to marry me.. It sucks for the fact that she was so nice and sweet and had the best of everything.. i ll have to post a pic if the thread wants it..And on top of that she said she cant talk or see me antmore cuz it would make it to hard for her and my friend??? wtf shes never been scandelous , y now.. and she also changed her cell number from what i heard to.. any suggestions on how to get over this besides .. go bang another chick?? lol

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strip clubs man...strip clubs and posting naked pics of her all over the internet. revenge....

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 RE: Dumped for the friend.. messed up

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Originally posted on 09-01-2005 by hzsogood
Just found out on monday that my girlfriend of 3 years has been seeing a guy i no for about 15 years.. wow what a feeling this is.. Everything seemed fine but i guess not. I already had a surprise to take her to cancun on her birthday and ask her to marry me.. It sucks for the fact that she was so nice and sweet and had the best of everything.. i ll have to post a pic if the thread wants it..And on top of that she said she cant talk or see me antmore cuz it would make it to hard for her and my friend??? wtf shes never been scandelous , y now.. and she also changed her cell number from what i heard to.. any suggestions on how to get over this besides .. go bang another chick?? lol

Life goes on man,Rough but thats the way it is. I would say (even though its hard saying it)That its better to have happened now instead of after marriage.and your"friend" isnt really a friend.At least you can know now that your "friend" cant be trusted.Your young and can find another easy,It's not that hard,trust me,I'm old fat and ugly but I have plenty of women friends that I can call on when needed.And there's so many out there just screaming for a man it isnt even funny. Just open your eyes and your heart,you'll do just fine.

Also when looking for another dont forget to remember your mistakes on your last one and dont make the same ones again.Hope this helps.

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man that sucks hzs, i went though the samething in high school, except i caught her, she would have probably never told me. what i did was just get into a fun hobby (car audio :P) to keep my mind off her. revenge or getting another gf right away wouldn't be a good idea since it sounds like u were in a pretty serious relationship. don't bother trying to get her back or anything, a girl that does that isn't worth, no mather how nice she may seem to be.

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RFVega
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Originally posted on 09-01-2005 by Rhaze36
Life goes on man,Rough but thats the way it is. I would say (even though its hard saying it)That its better to have happened now instead of after marriage.and your"friend" isnt really a friend.At least you can know now that your "friend" cant be trusted.Your young and can find another easy,It's not that hard,trust me,I'm old fat and ugly but I have plenty of women friends that I can call on when needed.And there's so many out there just screaming for a man it isnt even funny. Just open your eyes and your heart,you'll do just fine.

Also when looking for another dont forget to remember your mistakes on your last one and dont make the same ones again.Hope this helps.


I agree with you Rhaze, epecially the very last part! The saying is true: "Once bitten, Twice shy" and "Do it to me once, shame on you. Do it to me twice, shame on me". I am getting up to your age Rhaze (now 36) and I have been burnt a few times in life. Age really is true experience & brings wisdom! A note to all the younger generation: Listen to your elders and heed the advice. We DO know some things (usually the hard way) that can help you!

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Coming from a girl, girls are bitches, be careful, i swear look for all kinds of shit when you first meet them, and remember, if shes ever done something stupid, thats a red flag! if a person has done something catastrophically stupid, who says they cant do it again.
I swear man, girls = bitches.


Being a little hard on yourself, aren't you Shannon? You do speak wisdom though!

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i didn't say i was a bitch, i havn't been in a relationship either. Im just sayin a lot of girls are just retarded drama cases.

I didn't really mean you personally. I am sure your as sweet as they come:-) I was talking about you speaking about your gender in general. I have seen the older she becomes, the more mature and settled she is. That is the majority I would say, not everyone.

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audeogod
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Originally posted on 09-01-2005 by Rhaze36
Life goes on man,Rough but thats the way it is. I would say (even though its hard saying it)That its better to have happened now instead of after marriage.and your"friend" isnt really a friend.At least you can know now that your "friend" cant be trusted.Your young and can find another easy,It's not that hard,trust me,I'm old fat and ugly but I have plenty of women friends that I can call on when needed.And there's so many out there just screaming for a man it isnt even funny. Just open your eyes and your heart,you'll do just fine.

Also when looking for another dont forget to remember your mistakes on your last one and dont make the same ones again.Hope this helps.


I would say that this has to be the best advice I've seen on this forum yet. Pure wisdom speaking here.

Yes life goes on. I learned that after I married one who ended up cheating on me TWICE in a 7 year marriage. Didn't even find out about the first one until she did it the second time with another guy. Then it all came down. Turned out she had been seeing # 2 for close to two years there at the end of our marriage. # 1 was within the first two years of being married to her but it ended so quickly I didn't have time to suspect and she never said anything. I found out all this after the fact. All that is a long story that I'll skip though for now.

READ THIS AND LET THE HEALING PROCESS BEGIN>>>>>>>>>What you need right now is to take some time for yourself. This worked wonderously for me. Don't be alone a whole lot. Go out with friends and have fun doing the things that maybe you've not had time for due to being in a relationship. Obviously you were in a serious one if you were thinking about marriage. So that's bound to have taken up a lot of your time that you suddenly have freed up now. Use it for YOURSELF. Go fishing with friends, go to movies, go bowling, go to parties, just do things and have fun. Buy yourself things that you like even. For me it ended up being car audio partially, and new CD's every two weeks(on payday) mainly. I ended up with over 100 CD's in a matter of months but I got into a whole lot of new music that way. It was great and really helped me deal with aggressions and emotions that I had pent up. Metal and Rock tend to do that for me. Also I think someone here said not to think about her?? Well, I say do think about her, but don't dwell on her. You have to figure out what's going on in your head where she's concerned. It won't just go away. So only think about her to the point of figuring out what you are feeling and then deal with that. Do it in small portions, don't spend a whole lotta time on it at once and break it up with the fun stuff I described above. Talk to people about her too. That helps.

ABOUT HER>>>>>>>>Also try not to be down on yourself. This ain't your fault. If you didn't do anything to push her away and make her do this then don't beat up on yourself thinking you could have maybe done this or that better and maybe she'd still be here. NO SHE WOULDN'T. If she's the cheating type then nothing you could have done would have kept her. Forget her, and I know that will take awhile, but what I mean is don't even try to get her back. Don't even try to talk to her. You wouldn't believe anything she said so what would be the point?? Right now, you aren't ready to trust her or anyone else, and you can't trust her anyway. What you had with her is gone and it never really was there to begin with. Arguing with her about it won't solve a thing. It'll just delay the healing process. Once you realize that, it will be easier on you to get passed it all and go on down the road to another one when you're ready. But in the meantime, do as I did and spend some time single, and just having fun and enjoying life. And when you are ready for a new love, you won't have to look for it or realize it cause it'll just happen one day, you'll meet someone new and you'll know you're ready cause you'll enjoy being with her and won't be thinking about the other one at all.

ABOUT HIM>>>>>>>>>Dude. Seriously, that guy is NO friend. Everything I said about her also applies to him. Oh, and also maybe imagine yourself kicking his ass royally. Hell, even do it if you can get away with it and NOT get caught cause jail sucks. Don't add that one to your list of problems. If you can't get away with it for real, then you'll just have to imagine it. But one thing is for sure, if she cheated on you with him, then she'll do it to him eventually too. That's what happened to my ex-wife...the guy dumped her for his ex-wife again. Everytime one cheats, it's always easier for them to do it the second time, and the third, and on and on........he'll get his eventually. Maybe if you're lucky, you'll be around to see it.

Just one thing I'd add to what Rhaze said about mistakes. Don't make every other girl after the "cheating one" pay for "her" mistakes. You'll probably have to relearn to trust girls again. I did. But it helped that I ended up remarried to a girl I'd known for about 5 years before I got divorced. We had been friends at work for a long time. Then suddenly we both found ourselves single and it just clicked. Funny how that worked out, but I'm glad it did. It was easy to trust her cause I already knew her. But remember even if you meet one you've never met before, she didn't do what the last one did to you. However also remember what Shannon said....if they've made catastrophic mistakes, chances are good that they could do it again. Don't be the one they do it to.

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Who cares... chicks suck, and they smash your heart...don't get married, and spend your money on tacos. KORNDOG! how is that sub turning out for ya?

man, don't remind me about chicks spending ur money.. argh

the avalanche? not as loud as the HPO that i had, but the quality is superb. still need to make a new box though.

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Ok, first I'd like to say that when I found out a gf was cheating on me, it was the angriest I had ever been. I'm not the type to say, "You don't want to make me angry." blah blah, but thinking back, I'm kinda scared to think I got like that. It's really not a good place to be, and the feeling afterwards definitely sucked too. But I got over it.

I started things off by getting drunk almost every night for over a month (not a good way to start off first month of college). I don't recommend that. Other than just deciding it was time for me to get over it, I practiced a whole helluva lotta music, hung out with my roomies, smoked some pot with my buddies, had some fun with other women (one of her best friends... she'd kill me if she found out haha :) ), and generally just lived up life. And so now I'm 100% over it. Haven't had a relationship since (about a year), but that's b/c I really haven't found anyone worth taking out more than once. *sigh* yeah man, women can suck (no offense Shannon, any female down with audio is A OK in my book)

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any woman that sucks is ok by me! :=P



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I haven't heard the 18 yet, but what do you think of the low end on it...sorry to hijack your rant thread.

i think 50hz and down to 15hz, its insanly loud, basicly eats my HPO alive. but 60 and up are pretty weak, but it seems more natural, like with rock which i listen to the most. i think that natural roll off is a good thing, but probably not if u listen to rap. i'm starting to wish i had gotten the 18 now though, i'm loving this monster lowend, lots of pressure, i can't keep a staight face when it hits

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Yep girls suck:( i need a woman;) haha

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Yep girls suck:( i need a woman;) haha

nahh, girls don't suck, ex-girlfriends do

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nahh, girls don't suck, ex-girlfriends do

That's the problem right there. There aren't enough girls that do suck. And when you find one, keep her!!!

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